My fella is always at me whenever we are in public. He says I make eye contact with every man I see. I have started to look at the floor to avoid arguments. I don’t think I make unnecessary eye contact, but he always pulls me up on it. What should I do? Han
We are all a bit super sensitive to issues like yours right now, given the recent public ‘choking’ incident between Charles Saatchi and wife Nigella Lawson. Your letter is short, but it gave me a bad feeling. I don’t like to think of you turning yourself inside out to be submissive in order to avoid your boyfriend’s (seemingly illogical) jealousy.
And, if this how he makes you feel every time you’re out together, it must really put a dampener on any hot date or social occasion. You shouldn’t have to constantly mollify your guy about how you’re not into anyone but him. If I were you, I’d accept that he has deep-seated control issues you probably won’t be able to change, and it could well be time to move on.
Love, reality chick