Droughts happen in long-term relationships. That’s life. You have to communicate through it and not let it become the big elephant in the room, if you can. But I find this story pretty sad. Basically, a wife received a spreadsheet from her passive-aggressive husband documenting all her reasons for rejecting his sexual advances. She retaliated by sharing it on the Internet and not surprisingly, it’s gone viral.
I feel kind of voyeuristic even READING this spreadsheet, which suggests she’s doling out pity sex once every 10 days and turns it down other times because she’s sweaty/full/tired etc. If I was her, I would be completely floored by his actions, but I also have to wonder… IS it an act of a total jerk who’s only interested in getting laid or a last resort by a desperate guy who’s tried other avenues to fix things in the bedroom with a wife who doesn’t think there’s an issue?
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If you’re interested, the discussion continues on Reddit.
What would you do if your partner sent you a spreadsheet like this?