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Reality Chick is an advice column and blog about dating and relationships, and at RC HQ we’ve seen it all: sexless relationships, bad break-ups, no-hoper boyfriends, substance abuse, porn addiction, your partner’s dodgy past, secretly gay spouses, worst things to say during a fight, cheating, leaving unhappy marriages, long-distance dramas … and the list goes on. Dip a toe in our huge archive of Q+As or visit our sister site, Letter To My Ex, for regular blog posts on relationships, dating, break-ups – and some pretty cool free downloads. Thanks for dropping by!
Rachel, RC’s advice columnist
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QUICKIES: I haven’t dated in 4 years. Should I be honest about that? | I can’t have kids, how do I tell new partners? | Clingy boyfriend 1 + 2 | Should my boyfriend stay friends with a guy who hates me? | Could this older guy possibly be interested in me?
October 18, 2013Read moreIt's the fast food of love life advice! Mosey on in for a quickie or five.
1QUICKIES: How can I leave my abusive relationship? | Help – I won’t survive a long-distance relationship! | I kissed a girl and now we’re dating and it all feels weird | Is my ex addict ex seeing someone else?
August 19, 2013Read moreIt's the fast food of love life advice... our latest quickies update.
QUICKIES: Will my model girlfriend cheat while she’s away? | What is my long-distance guy trying to tell me? | Can friends who become lovers go back to being friends? | I feel like I’m nothing to her, what did I do wrong?
June 19, 2013Read moreThe latest batch of short, sharp Q&As has landed at RC HQ. Mosey on in
QUICKIES: He hates that I slept with someone when we were apart | Fixing my super-clingy boyfriend | Is he trying to let me down gently? | How can I be sexier?
May 9, 2013Read moreToday's quickies update has a distinct theme of boyfriends behaving badly - or just weirdly. Mosey on in for my advice to...
QUICKIES: I fear the worst from my violent husband | Should I pay for the damage caused when we broke up? | Started dating my friend but now not keen
March 20, 2013Read moreIt's the fast food of love life advice! Get your short, sharp Q&As here, folks.
QUICKIES: Leaving an abusive husband | Protecting yourself during a separation | Pregnant and wanna come home | Facebook and dating confusions | Her past is messing with my head
February 27, 2013Read moreFancy a short'n'sweet quickies update? I've delved into my mailbag and answered a whole heap of new questions from RC readers. Feel...
QUICKIES: Should I approach my maybe-gay uni crush? | What’s with all the mixed messages from my ex? | The first and last time I had sex I got pregnant. Normal to fear sex now? | His friends think I’m the devil. What to do?
November 8, 2012Read moreFour short, sharp and very curly Q&As hot out of Reality Chick's mailbag.
QUICKIES: Do I choose love with my ex – or the friends who hate him? | What do I do about this guy? | Number one thing guaranteed to turn my wife on? | Can you predict my future?
July 23, 2012Read moreIn our latest update, our 'no question too small or too strange' philosophy definitely applies. Click on inside for a fresh new...
QUICKIES: We were on a break, but… | Should I hit the gay scene? | He wants to try anal | Bed pal before divorce? | He blows hot and cold | Our fights are getting worse
May 27, 2012Read moreFeel like a short, sharp dose of RC advice? We're answering a range of curly questions in our latest quickies update, including...