UPDATE FROM LETTER WRITER: “So confused about my 11-month relationship. Do I move on?”

UPDATE FROM LETTER WRITER: “So confused about my 11-month relationship. Do I move on?”

UPDATE FROM LETTER WRITER: "So confused about my 11-month relationship. Do I move on?"Hi RC. Well I know how you love follow ups – the truth is that I’m sitting here almost 5 months to the day and wondering why I didn’t take your advice back in September! Re-reading your advice (and my question) I can’t believe that five months on I’m in exactly the same place with him. We broke up two weekends ago over ‘I love you’ and after a horrible week apart had a lovely weekend together.

We surfed, swam, etc and he even took me out to a great little restaurant we used to love going on dates to and treated me to vintage champagne! I guess reading your advice back now I know that I only have one option – to take control of my life and stop letting him have me at his beck and call to play with when it suits him and to banish when it’s too much. He’s about to bring my stuff from his up to mine – I am resolved to be amazing and strong! Thanks for all your help – I’m just sorry it’s taken me 5 months to listen to it! Anon (5 Months Later) x

That’s the funny thing, it never matters how much well-meaning or good advice you get when you’re in the throes of something confusing – we all have our ‘end point’ and only you know in your gut when it’s time to walk away. Hugs to you honey. Thanks for the update, and we hope it’s onward and upward for you from here.

Love, reality chick


If we’ve given you advice in the past, get in touch to let us know how you’re doing!

Or, if you have a question for reality chick or the Manswers team, visit the RC Question Box.
Freelance journo, blogger, self-appointed advice-giver and co-author of Get Lucky. If you've got a dating or relationship issue, feel free to ask a question. (PS. You can also find me at The Mama Files and Letter To My Ex).

0 Comments

Leave a reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

*