Hi RC. Well I know how you love follow ups – the truth is that I’m sitting here almost 5 months to the day and wondering why I didn’t take your advice back in September! Re-reading your advice (and my question) I can’t believe that five months on I’m in exactly the same place with him. We broke up two weekends ago over ‘I love you’ and after a horrible week apart had a lovely weekend together.
We surfed, swam, etc and he even took me out to a great little restaurant we used to love going on dates to and treated me to vintage champagne! I guess reading your advice back now I know that I only have one option – to take control of my life and stop letting him have me at his beck and call to play with when it suits him and to banish when it’s too much. He’s about to bring my stuff from his up to mine – I am resolved to be amazing and strong! Thanks for all your help – I’m just sorry it’s taken me 5 months to listen to it! Anon (5 Months Later) x
That’s the funny thing, it never matters how much well-meaning or good advice you get when you’re in the throes of something confusing – we all have our ‘end point’ and only you know in your gut when it’s time to walk away. Hugs to you honey. Thanks for the update, and we hope it’s onward and upward for you from here.
Love, reality chick